In any personal or professional relationship, you have to work hard to make it successful. When you go to an accountant, you should bring in all of your receipts and tax forms, try not to squirm around too much when you get a haircut, don’t boss around and lecture the plumbers and electricians about their jobs just because you watched a couple of YouTube videos. If you’re married with children, like myself, you’ll find yourself watching RuPaul’s Drag RaceThe Great British Baking Show and Say Yes to the Dress with your wife and daughter, while your son’s away at college and you’ve been outvoted on what to watch on television. No matter how hard you try, you’re never going to convince them to sit through the Mets, Giants or gory zombie movies, so you just smile and feign interest in pastries and arguing over who should have really won the Lip Sync Battle—Brooke Lynn Hytes or Yvie Oddly?

This advice holds true as you’re interviewing and working with human resources and internal in-house corporate recruiters. The endgame is to have them like you and want to extend a generous offer to you.

A critical part of the interview process is effectively dealing and collaborating with in-house recruiters and human resources professionals. These are the company gatekeepers that you need to impress to get through to the hiring managers and advance in the interview process. Many professionals misunderstand this crucial relationship. They view the human resources staff as unnecessary roadblocks that impede their progress. Their egos get in the way, feel that it’s demeaning to meet with HR and they should only interview with the hiring manager and senior-level executive management. These self-important candidates make no secret about their feelings and it shows. It’s the same way that some rude people treat assistants dismissively thinking it will motivate them to put you right through to the person they want to connect with.

Source: Forbes